Isolation to Intimacy is an amazing program for guiding a betrayed spouse through the process of grief to healing. Kim’s experience and wisdom–led by scripture–exposed my idolatry, revealed my worth, and helped me navigate the darkest time in my marriage. This program facilitated my healing and helped me understand that my husband’s sexual sin of pornography and adultery was his to carry. The combination of physical, spiritual, and emotional healing has equipped me to help others by sharing my experiences without fear or shame. Thank you, Kim, for sharing your gifts and facilitating the healing of many others.

After completing only 2 out of the 7 modules of the Isolation to Intimacy course, I’m so encourage how much the program has helped me so far. Listening to others’ stories in the community—even though everyone’s stories are so, so different—I realize there’s a lot of overlap in what we’ve been through, and it’s really helped me to remember that my journey is different from my husband’s journey and to make sure I “stay on my side of the road.”

It has been so helpful to be reminded that his stuff is his stuff, and I don’t need to carry his shame.

Hope for Spouses and Kim Pullen have been a godsend in my life! Kim is as a survivor, hope-giver, encourager, and mentor with the wisdom and experience to apply the Word of God to recovery.

There aren't enough words to testify how beneficial the Hope for Spouses Colossians series, group calls, emails, Facebook group, and video posts have been to my well-being throughout my recovery from my spouse’s betrayal and our separation. God is using this ministry mightily to help the multitude of women affected by the horror of pornography and infidelity.

Suffering and limping through a separation from my husband, I had little knowledge of what to do. I just wanted the pain to stop. At exactly the right time, God used Kim Pullen and Hope for Spouses to help me place God first in my life and lean into the pain. I found overwhelming peace in Him, and the shifting of circumstances could not shake me.

I am blessed to have Kim leading and walking with me through my recovery!

The Isolation to Intimacy program has drastically changed my marriage because it forced me to look in the mirror. Without God being #1 in my life, I would continue to spiral downward and my fears would consume me.

I have learned to set and maintain healthy boundaries, and the online community gives me a safe place to share my thoughts, struggles, and fears. I have also learned how to go to God to meet many spiritual and emotional needs my spouse was not created to meet for me.

I didn’t know such a resource existed that gathers all this information in one place. The most valuable part of this program for me is how Kim uses the Bible to support the entire recovery journey. I felt understood, not only by God, but by Kim. It was like taking my journey with God on one side and a friend on the other.

Thank you, Kim, for sharing your pain and for the latest YouTube video on safety. It was a great template for me as I spoke to my husband on what I needed in order to feel safe. He was humble and at the end, said he is willing to do whatever it takes. What a hard journey this is, but I know my pain will comfort others as I have found my comfort in God.