New $125 Course Combo Deal
Mapping a Godly Path in the Wake of Your Spouse’s Adultery or Addiction to Pornography
Get both courses for one low price
i2i Course includes:
- 8 Modules
- 44 Course Videos
- 7 Self-Care Lessons
- 36 Personal, Practical Assignments
- 3 Digital Online Workbooks
- The Intimacy Manifesto eBook
iSeeU Course includes:
- 13 Modules
- 50 course videos & assignments
- 4 Digital Online Workbooks
- Dozens of additional resources
Both biblically-based courses for only $125
What is Isolation to Intimacy (or i2i)?
ISOLATION TO INTIMACY is an online program created for spouses whose partners have committed adultery or are addicted to pornography.
It is a personal, practical, biblically-based guide to move you from trauma and isolation to hope and healing.
What does i2i include?
Everything you need to start your journey out of isolation and move purposefully toward healthy intimacy with God and a circle of safe others.
Module 1
Out of Denial & Isolation
Learn to grieve your losses and accept your powerlessness to change others.
Module 2
Renewing Your Heart & Mind
Confront your pain and implement proven methods to change how you view God, yourself, and your spouse.
Module 3
The Power of Three
Make God your primary source of strength and identify your support system: groups, professional counselors, and safe others.
Module 4
The Wound Behind the Why
Understand how childhood wounds manifest in adulthood, and create space to extend grace to yourself and to your spouse.
Module 5
Boundaries: Taking Responsilibity for You
Learn how to recognize personal boundaries, refrain from violating others’, and set and hold your own.
Module 6
The Long & Winding Road
The process of recovery includes counting the cost of intimacy, recognizing repentance, and choosing forgiveness.
Module 7
There’s Glory in Your Story
Growth and gratitude produce intimacy, the desire to recycle pain for others, and an acceptance of others’ choices.
Self-Care Mini Course
Growth and gratitude produce intimacy, the desire to recycle pain for others, and an acceptance of others’ choices.
EACH Module includes:
4-5 VIDEO course lessons,
4-5 personal, practical ASSIGNMENTS,
PLUS dozens of RESOURCES including guide sheets, helpful links, affirmations, and supplementary reading materials.
i2i Digital Workbooks
What is iSeeU?
iSeeU is a 6-month kickstart recovery program for those starting their recovery or who need a biblical foundation to move forward in their healing journey.
What does iSeeU include?
Welcome
Module 0
Includes a general overview of the course including your course goal, community, supplementary materials, and the “cost” of recovery.
Laying the Ground Work
Module 1
Successfully weathering the storms of life requires a solid foundation built on Scripture and God’s standard of righteousness.
Cleaning the Wound
Module 2
Learning to accept our wounds and biblically grieve is the first step in healing from a broken, betrayed heart.
An Introduction to Boundaries
Module 3
When we create a safe space for healing from heartache and trauma, we imitate the heart and character of God.
Prayer - The Intimacy Builder
Module 4
The purpose of prayer is to invite an expectant God into our mind and life so he can share space with us.
Pain - The Doorway to Healing
Module 5
God never wastes our pain. Just as with Jesus, he uses pain to draw us to himself so he can strengthen us.
Setting Boundaries
Module 6
Creating, owning, setting, and communicating enforceable boundaries is like drawing a line in the sand.
The Origin of Our Value & Identity
Module 7
While the world devalues the human spirit, Jesus declared it priceless with an incomparable life and death.
Owning Our Powerlessness
Module 8
The world cannot grasp Paul’s declaration that “when I am weak, then I am strong” because it doesn’t know God.
Expecting Resistance to Boundaries
Module 9
Like magnets repelling each other, so we resist the difficulty and differences integral to boundaries.
Changing Our Mind
Module 10
Repentance is a universal and inevitable expectation to the one who would turn from the world to God.
SELF-CARE
Module 11
Self-care isn’t selfish; you can’t love others with your whole heart unless you have learned to love yourself first.
Maintaining Boundaries
Module 12
The most difficult aspect of boundaries is not letting them be trampled by the feet of sentimentality.
Practicing the Presence of God
Module 13
It is in the everyday practice of life that we learn and experience the extraordinary power of living in God’s presence.
WHERE DO I GO FROM HERE?
Course Wrap-Up
While this leg of your journey has ended, your transformation in the wake of betrayal has just begun!
iSeeU Digital Workbooks
Optional a la Carte Services as Needed
Online Community
You’ll have access to your own personal, private online community, utilizing the video texting app Marco Polo. Connect with other i2i Travelers for inspiration and encouragement to move forward on your recovery journey.
$30/month
One-on-One Coaching
Need a personal guide to walk alongside you? Schedule regular or as-needed coaching calls with program creator and life coach, Kim Pullen. Get feedback on homework to avoid obstacles and stay focused on your destination.
$50 per 50-minute call
Start healing today.
You have nothing to lose and everything to gain including a deeper, more intimate relationships with God, safe friends, and maybe even your spouse.
Start your personal journey now!
Who’s it for?
It’s for you if you’ve taken on one of these roles in your marriage.
The Sleuth
You suspect your spouse is lying or hiding, but haven’t found evidence to prove they’re guilty of sexual sin. You secretly scour their emails, credit card receipts, or text messages looking for clues. Catching them has become an obsession.
The Paralytic
You’re emotionally paralyzed. You know your spouse has committed adultery or watches porn. You’ve ignored it, letting it eat away at your conscience hoping it’ll go away on it’s own, or you simply have no idea what to do or where to start.
The Captive
You and your spouse have been in recovery or you’ve been separated for months or years with little contact. You feel like you’re hanging in limbo, a prisoner to their bad choices. You want to believe your marriage can be healed but your faith is wearing thin.
BOTTOM LINE
You’ve known or suspected your spouse of having an affair or an addiction to pornography. You’ve been paralyzed and isolated by fear, shame, or grief. It’s time to start your journey toward hope and healing.
What makes Hope for Spouses programs so unique?
A Biblical Strategy
The only program that offers a step-by-step, biblically-based strategy to guide you from isolation to intimacy with God and a safe circle of others.
Accessible Anywhere
Work on your recovery from anywhere in the world, whether it’s a rural Midwest town, a sprawling metropolitan city, or a remote village.
Wholehealth Focus
The ONLY program that addresses healing mind, body, and spirit with an integrated self-care mini-course
Personal & Affordable
Personal support for thousands of dollars less than a multi-day intensive couples’ workshop.
An Experienced Guide
The ONLY program with an experienced guide to walk alongside you for the entire journey.
A Connected Community
Connect with an international community of recovering spouses who are striving to honor God with their marriage.
FAQs
How long does it take to complete the program?
As long as you need. While recovery is a difficult and challenging process, it is also as individual as you are. Much depends on where you start your recovery, how well you know yourself, your Bible literacy, and how quickly you are ready to change old patterns of thinking (Romans 12:2).
It is recommended you take at least 3-5 days to complete each lesson. This includes watching the video several times to process the information and scriptures, completing the assignment, and exploring the supplementary resources. Some lessons will take longer. Others you will want to repeat several times.
Do I need one-on-one coaching or the online community?
Since we were never created by God to heal or thrive in isolation, the i2i and iSeeU programs were design with both guidance and a safe community in mind. These resources are an additional cost and are not required, but it is important to note that deeper and more lasting progress will be made with consistent access to these additional resources.
How often do I receive my course modules?
You get all modules for both courses instantly.
How long can I access the program?
You will have 24/7 unlimited lifetime access to all the course materials including module videos, assignments, supplementary resources as well as any new material that’s added.
Do I have to be a Christian or know the Bible to benefit from the program?
You do not need to be a Bible scholar prior to beginning this program, however, some Bible knowledge will be helpful. If you do have Biblical relationship with God, the lessons will dramatically improve your intimacy with Him.
If you do not have a Biblical faith, the program will nurture your understanding of the scriptures and open your eyes to God’s infinite love and compassion (Romans 10:17). If your biblical knowledge is limited, we suggest starting with the iSeeU program first.
What if my spouse is abusive?
Please note this program is designed for difficult marriages, not dangerous ones. If you are in an environment that is not safe, we encourage you to seek help as your safety is of primary importance. In the US, we recommend you contact the National Domestic Violence Violence Hotline as soon as possible. There are two ways:
- Call 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) and talk to a trained advocate available 24/7/365
- Live Chat 24/7/365
or outside the US, find a local domestic abuse help agency near you.
Start healing today.
You have nothing to lose and everything to gain including a deeper, more intimate relationships with God, safe friends, and maybe even your spouse.
Start your personal journey now!
What others are saying about Kim Pullen and the Hope for Spouses recovery programs
When I first found Hope for Spouses, my husband had just abandoned me to pursue another affair, and I didn’t know where to turn. I was devastated! I couldn’t eat, sleep, or think about anything except how this had happened to me…again.
Then I started Kim’s Isolation to Intimacy program and for the first time, started to see myself clearly. Loaded with scriptures, the program helped me see how I needed to change, how much God loves me, and how I no longer need to fear the future.
The Isolation to Intimacy program has drastically changed my marriage because it forced me to look in the mirror. Without God being #1 in my life, I would continue to spiral downward and my fears would consume me.
I have learned to set and maintain healthy boundaries, and the online community gives me a safe place to share my thoughts, struggles, and fears. I have also learned how to go to God to meet many spiritual and emotional needs my spouse was not created to meet for me.
I didn’t know such a resource existed that gathers all this information in one place. The most valuable part of this program for me is how Kim uses the Bible to support the entire recovery journey. I felt understood, not only by God, but by Kim. It was like taking my journey with God on one side and a friend on the other.
There is so much wisdom and knowledge to absorb in the Isolation to Intimacy program. God used it to help me uncover and safely surrender my pain to him so I could experience freedom and healing. I feel confident knowing I now have a better idea of what God wants for me and where I am headed. I no longer feel like I’m walking in the dark.
As a wife who discovered her husband’s sexual sin 35 years into my marriage, I highly recommend this program. Kim has developed an insightful and powerful resource for anyone who has experienced the effects of betrayal trauma from a spouse’s unfaithfulness, whether through an affair, prostitution, or pornography and masturbation.
One of the last exercises in the Isolation to Intimacy program is to write a letter to the woman you were when you started this journey. After 8 months of transformation, I cannot tell you how inspirational that was. I started so broken, so disillusioned, and in such a dark place, but thanks to this anointed program and God taking me by the hand, I can honestly say I have come through on the other side victorious. Thank you, Kim Pullen, from the bottom of my heart for turning your story into a pathway for recovery for others, and to my Father God for transforming my mind.